I wish I were getting paid for the work I've poured into some of these groups. Ffs. They don't think I'm getting paid, but they do seem to think that the group and its drama du jour should be my primary focus. People really don't understand how much time and work goes into maintaining a group on Facebook or LJ or Reddit or wherever, especially when the group has thousands of people in it, and even when you have co-admins to help. My favorite is still the one demanding I "do my job", posted while I was at work. i did some enthusiastic swinging of the banhammer and the trolls and drama seem to have calmed down for the time being, fortunately.